How to Surprise the Soon-to-Be Mom in Your Life

Becoming a mom is like stepping onto a brand-new stage of life. It’s exhilarating, a little terrifying, and absolutely beautiful. If you have a soon-to-be mom in your life, this is your chance to show her just how loved and supported she is. Let’s talk about how you can make her smile, ease her worries, and celebrate this incredible journey she’s about to embark on.

No one can deny that happy expectation of a newborn is one of life’s most precious moments, celebrated with joy, care, and heartfelt blessings. Check out our Baby Shower gift baskets and hampers if you want to express your most heartfelt wishes to that special someone for this big event. We have an amazing selection of gender-neutral gift boxes like this one or gifts for baby boys or baby girls.

1. Create a Gift Box That Feels Like a Warm Hug

Imagine the moment she opens a box that’s clearly been put together just for her. Inside, she finds soft blankets for the baby, a tiny onesie that’s too cute for words, and maybe a little something just for her—a luxurious hand cream or a journal where she can jot down her thoughts.

At the heart of this delightful blessing box is the encapsulation of common sense and fashion: the  Diaper Bag Baby Girl. This cutesy and chic box will certainly make that  special someone happy. With gorgeous diapers, wipes, bottles, and all the basics an infant requires, it guarantees that the mother will be covered for the basic needs that come with having a baby daughter.

When I surprised my sister with a baby gift box, I tucked in a little note that said, “You’re going to be amazing, even on the hard days.” She told me later that she rereads that note on nights when the baby won’t sleep. Sometimes, the smallest things make the biggest impact.

2. Throw Her a Baby Shower She’ll Never Forget

Baby showers don’t have to be over-the-top affairs; they just need heart. One of my favorite memories is organizing a surprise baby shower for a friend who insisted she didn’t need one. We kept it simple—her favorite foods, a few decorations, and a circle of people who adore her. When she walked in and saw everyone cheering for her, she cried.

Think about what she’d love—a cozy tea party, a book-themed shower, or even a casual picnic. It’s less about the setting and more about surrounding her with love.

3. Pamper Her Like the Queen She Is

Pregnancy is a marathon, not a sprint, and every runner needs a water break. Treat her to a spa day or bring the spa to her. I once set up a “home spa” for a friend with foot soaks, candles, and soothing music. She told me it was the first time in months she’d truly felt relaxed.

Even if it’s just a bag of goodies—bath salts, a fluffy robe, and some pregnancy-safe skincare—you’ll be giving her a little slice of calm in a busy time.

4. Pack a Diaper Bag Full of Surprises

Practical gifts can be fun too! Imagine handing her a chic diaper bag that’s already packed with essentials like diapers, wipes, and bottles. But here’s the twist—tuck in a few surprises just for her: a chocolate bar, a book she’s been dying to read, or a funny “survival guide” for new moms.

But hold up, there’s more! Settled inside the folds of the diaper pack is a cluster of shocks ensured to make mom’s heart skip a beat. To begin with, a determination of scrumptious treats curated to fulfill her sweet tooth – our godiva baskets brimming with artisanal chocolates, handcrafted with adoration and care. Since let’s confront it, each unused mother merits a minute of liberality amid the tornado of motherhood.

When I did this for a colleague, she laughed so hard at the little note I slipped in: “You’ve got this—just don’t forget the wipes!” Practicality doesn’t have to be boring.

5. Plan a Memory-Making Experience

Some gifts are meant to be unwrapped; others are meant to be felt. Why not give her an experience she’ll treasure forever? A maternity photoshoot is always a hit, but it doesn’t have to be fancy. Grab a camera, take her to a park at sunset, and capture her glowing smile.

Once, I surprised my best friend with a “pregnancy picnic.” We brought her favorite foods, played soft music, and let her put her feet up while we toasted to the little one on the way. It was simple, but she still talks about how special that day felt.

6. Satisfy Her Sweet Tooth

If you’ve ever seen a pregnant woman craving chocolate, you know the look—it’s serious business! Surprise her with a box of gourmet chocolates, a plate of freshly baked cookies, or even a subscription to a snack box.

One of the easiest ways I’ve made an expecting mom happy was by showing up with her favorite ice cream and a spoon. She still tells people, “That’s when I knew she was my real friend!” Sometimes, it’s the little things.

7. Be Her Partner in Parenting Prep

Let’s be real: preparing for a baby can feel overwhelming. Offer to tackle some of those endless tasks. Maybe you help assemble the crib, organize the nursery, or stock her freezer with ready-to-eat meals. It might not sound glamorous, but trust me, this kind of help is pure gold.

When my cousin was expecting, I spent an afternoon folding baby clothes and sorting diapers by size. It seemed small at the time, but later, she told me, “Every time I walked into the nursery, I thought of you.”

8. Surprise Her with a Basket of Self-Care

Every mom-to-be needs reminders to take care of herself too. Put together a “spoil yourself” basket with items like cozy socks, herbal teas, and a journal for her thoughts. Add a personal touch—a note that says, “You’re growing a human, and that’s amazing. Don’t forget to take care of you.”

Consider throwing in an additional basket for her, which contains everything she wants to spoil herself and relax, because every parent needs self-care and some “me time”.

When I gave this to a friend, I included a book of poems about motherhood. She told me she read it during quiet moments and found so much comfort in knowing she wasn’t alone in her feelings.

9. Build a Box of Letters from Loved Ones

This might be the simplest, yet most meaningful surprise of all. Reach out to her friends and family, asking them to write letters of love, encouragement, and advice. Gather the letters in a decorative box and present it to her.

When we did this for my sister, she cried while reading each one. Now, she keeps the box on her nightstand and pulls out a letter whenever she’s having a tough day. It’s a gift that keeps giving long after the baby arrives.

The Perfect Surprise Is About the Heart

At the end of the day, it’s not about the size of the gift or the cost of the gesture—it’s about showing her that she’s not alone on this incredible journey. Whether you give her a basket of goodies, a relaxing day, or a handwritten note, what matters most is the love and thought behind it.

Because the truth is, motherhood is a mix of magic and madness, and knowing that someone has her back makes all the difference. So go ahead—plan that surprise, and watch her face light up with joy. You’ve got this. ❤️